So we take a load from Oakville to Mississauga from Tania yesterday afternoon, and quoted a 24 ft Flatbed to pickup 13:30 and deliver straight through. The confirmation indicated the product was a 16ft x 4ft x 4ft long rack.
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I have a feeling there is A LOT of important info missing from your description of what happened because if I take what you wrote at face value, your company is in the wrong for not contacting Kooi immediately once you knew that extra freight was being loaded on your truck.
If your truck shows up to a shipper and the load does not match what the load confirmation says, you call the load broker IMMEDIATELY to discuss the situation. Dealing with the problem right away avoids the issues and chaos that ensue after the fact. This is basic common sense. C'mon.........
Communication, communication, communication!
If you called Kooi as soon as your driver told you that the shipper wanted to load more freight than was indicated on the confirmation, you could have tried to resolve the issue/order error at that time. If Kooi was insisting on loading something that does not fit on your truck and you cannot come to any type of solution, then you can agree to only load what was ordered or you pull your truck. Simple.
When several parties are involved in one transaction, all parties need to be on the same page. The shipper, Kooi, your company, your driver. 4 parties. All MUST be communicating at all times to avoid these unnecessary "issues".
On the other hand, threatening and yelling is unacceptable from any party so Kooi was definitely wrong for doing that.