Loaders, that is our "modus operandi" .
My ideal broker customer is the one that comes to me and says "Michael, we have an opportunity here. What are your costs ... ". To my way of thinking those are the smart people worth dealing with. In fact, those are the people I actively seek to do business with. Those are the people I will actually buy equipment for. Of course lanes come and go but for the most part I've been pretty successful in establishing those relationships and continuing them. I've really only had one go sideways on me, and that was mostly due to the broker truly believing he was smarter than his shipper, but that's a story for another thread.
The long and short of it is that not everyone is built to be a sales person, nor is everyone built to be an operations person, or a human resources person. I'm great at putting puzzles together. Whether it's my puzzle or your puzzle is immaterial. What I do have trouble with is making you understand what I see in your puzzle.
Play to your strengths, partner with those that possess strengths you lack, and make the world go 'round for yet another day.